He isgay and I am proud of it. Probably he is the closest person to me as of now that I can consider. We have a lot of commonalities at the same a lot of differences as well. We argue with each other,laugh,fight and seen each other cry, get hurt, mostly understand each other and more along the process of this tight bond. Thus, becoming one’s best friend is a big achievement. I all starts when you smile, talk and hang out then care too much for them. But your best friend is not always right I tell you because sometimes your bff is so confident enough about everything about you just for the fact that he or she is your bestfriend then results to misjudging you and unbeknownst of the real kept feelings. There are things meant just to be kept with yourself. Sometimes it is better if some words are left unspoken, a quote goes. Nothing in this world is perfect. So expect the same from your best friend and of course you as well. We make mistakes and we have flaws. Still best friends are best friends. Nothing could compare to that person who is always there for you and knows a lot about you. Having all your imperfections are just enough to give balance with your bff relationship. The other fills in the lacking and you do the same as well then go laughing taking the up-and-down ride of this tricky life.
He is straight-forward and believes he can achieve his dreams in the right time and place. We both believe in that and maybe that is what makes us zing because of our principle in life and our dream. Our dream is to achieve our dreams. Dreams, in plural form because we have a lot of them piled up. We want to go far far away from where we are situated in (but we have different plans and paths) away from the people who takes our happiness away and away from the society which always put up standards that are also absurd as well. There in that place we would be our real selves and become young, wild and free.
Your best friend is like your long lost another half not as a couple thing but somewhere between the line of friendship and sibling-like-relationship. Your joke partner, your counselor, chaperon, and more tiring roles in life. I strongly believe that my best friend is God’s gift to me. God gives us someone so similar to us, someone who can be your sister, mother, father and brother at the same time.Someone like your bff. Your best friend is another different replica of yours that is born in another woman’s womb got separated and got found again as you stumble down the road of friendship.
Maybe, one important lesson I learned from him is to be real. The kind of real that is genuine enough not to become someone else. Hypocrisy is too exhausted and suffocating because most of the crowds are (right now). Another, is not to be contented because if we think this way then we will never achieve SOME thing and just become one of the statistics who failed. It is like you are building your own limitations and you would not like that to happen because the truth is, we humans always want everything that this life could offer and well, who doesn’t anyways? My bff used to say it is useless to be contented of what you have right now if you can always have that possibility to have and want more. It is like trying to say you can’t achieve your dreams. You are limiting yourself. Widen your wants to widen your world. Be ambitious and make all of it come true. And that is the greatest lesson I learned to the closest person I have.